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An ordinary woman, but with a wide range of interests.

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And fish never speak or write about themselves.

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We have become so accustomed to warring with one another that we have almost forgotten how to truly meet. Men and women today approach each other not with open hearts, but with armor already donned, a pre-prepared list of grievances, and a finger pointed accusingly at the opposite sex. Men are weary—and understandably so—for many have encountered partners who saw them not as human beings, but as a wallet, a status symbol, or a convenient means to secure a comfortable life, only to leave the moment a more advantageous option appeared. Women are just as weary—and equally understandably so—for many have encountered partners who saw them not as individuals, but as domestic help, a body, or a fleeting amusement; men who took their warmth and care, then vanished, leaving nothing behind but emptiness. And so, the two sides stand facing one another—wounded and resentful—each clutching their list of grievances, and each convinced that the fault lies entirely with the other. But here is the mistake almost everyone makes: we take the pain caused by one person and project it onto the entire opposite sex, so that a single betrayer comes to represent—in our eyes—all men or all women. After all, one could spend an entire lifetime looking for someone to blame, letting that life slip away amidst accusations, a need to be right, and loneliness. And perhaps the greatest risk in life isn't trusting the wrong person, but walking right past "the one"—the only one—without even noticing them behind your armor.